The saying "Who wears the pants in your family?" is a colloquial expression used to identify who holds the authority or is in charge within a household. It implies that the person "wearing the pants" is the decision-maker and has the final say in family matters. This phrase originated in a time when wearing pants was predominantly associated with men, and by extension, with authority and control. However, when living with a child with reactive attachment disorder (RAD), the child often ends up having significant control over the household due to their extreme behaviors, such as aggression, defiance, and manipulation, which can be highly disruptive and overwhelming. These intense emotional reactions can dominate the household atmosphere, causing parents to walk on eggshells to avoid triggering meltdowns. In an effort to manage these outbursts, parents might become inconsistent with rules and boundaries, leading the child to exploit these gaps and feel more in control. The constant stress and fatigue from dealing with RAD behaviors can wear parents down, making them more likely to give in to the child’s demands to maintain temporary peace. Consequently, much of the family’s attention and resources are directed towards managing the child’s needs, leaving little room for parents to focus on their own needs or those of other family members, thus giving the child significant control over the household dynamics. I remember when a friend asked me, "Who makes the decisions in your household?" Naturally, I replied, "We do, the parents!" But she said, "No, your RAD child decides what you can and can't do. She even dictates where you go." It was hard to hear, but she was absolutely right. So, who really wears the pants in your family? #FamilyAuthority #HouseholdDynamics #ReactiveAttachmentDisorder #RADAwareness #ParentingChallenges #FamilyControl #ManagingRAD #ParentalStress #ChildBehavior #FamilyStruggles #AuthorityInFamily #ParentingRAD #EmotionalBehavior #FamilyLife
Time to chat trauma papa to trauma papa (with RAD Advocates along to give info. just for you). It's almost time for our special Father's Day member meeting! If you're already a member, check your inbox for the registration email in June. Not a member yet but want to take part? There's still time to sign up and take part in our June 10 meeting! Visit radadvocates.org/join for more information. RAD Advocates members get MONTHLY live meetings to chat and learn from the RAD Advocates and other members. It's a time to connect with people who truly understand, take a break, and learn ways to navigate parenting a child with RAD. #reactiveattachmentdisorder #developmentaltrauma #RADAdvocates #parenting #trauma #kidsfromhardplaces #kidsfromhardplaces #adoption #nextofkin #fostercare #grandparentsraisinggrandchildren #traumapapa
What is Reactive Attachment Disorder? (RAD) Reactive Attachment Disorder Symptoms - feeling unhappy - being irritated - avoiding physical contact with caregivers - avoiding eye contact - having tantrums - inability to express emotions - argumentative with others - crying inconsolably - comforting themselves often - emotionally detached - feeling sadness and anger - feeling anxious - difficulty building relationships - untrusting of adults - lying. stealing or impulsive - withdrawing from social situations - difficulties in working memory - depression and low self esteem - exaggerate distress - executive functioning difficultly #reactiveattachmentdisorder #RAD #sensoryprocessingdisorder
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"Good parenting" can't heal the serious impact that early trauma left on the brain. In fact, attempts to attach to and nurture the child often make matters worse without proper intervention. Visit www.radadvocates.org and type "nurturing enemy" and "therapeutic parenting" into the search box to learn more. @rad_advocates #reactiveattachmentdisorder #developmentaltrauma #mentalhealthawareness #traumamama #traumapapa #adoption #fostercare #grandparentsraisinggranchildren #stepparenting
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There's a huge misconception out there that parenting with a PDA lens means that there are no boundaries. Well, just in the last week, my child asked if he could jump off the deck onto the trampoline AND if he could sit on top of the car while I pulled it into the garage. Sorry, my guy, but no. I also separated my kids this week when they were in mid-slap fight. Because physically hurting each other is a boundary. That I've set and I maintain because they don't always have the impulse control needed to keep each other safe. Being frustrated that my PDAer doesn't have the impulse control of other (almost) 10-year-olds doesn't really get me anywhere. (Trust me, I remind myself of this frequently.) The reality is that he is who he is, and his brain development is currently where it's at. It's a pretty neutral thing when you think about it. #pathologicaldemandavoidance #autism #autismacceptance #autismfamily #autismawareness #spd #sensoryprocessingdisorder #autismsupport #neurodiversity #anxiety #adhdkid #selfregulation #highlysensitivechild #oppositionaldefiantdisorder #disruptivemooddysregulationdisorder #intermittentexplosivedisorder #reactiveattachmentdisorder #pervasivedriveforautonomy #spiritedchild #traumainformedparenting
Just because others don't see the symptoms of reactive attachment disorder/developmental trauma does not mean that it doesn't exist. The very nature of this complex disorder is that the primary caregiver is often one of the few people who sees the symptoms. This is because the disorder is triggered by nurturing and attempts for attachment. To support the child, we must believe and support the primary caregiver. www.radadvocates.org @rad_advocates #reactiveattachmentdisorder #developmentaltrauma #fostercare #adoption #stepparenting #grandparentsraisinggrandchildren #PTSD #RADisreal
Children diagnosed with RAD have experience complex trauma at a very early age. This trauma doesn't just "get better" because they have safety, love, and stability. It takes years for them to begin to heal, and healing is something they will need to work on their entire lives. Image credit: Kyla Thorne #RADparenting #reactiveattachmentdisorder #childhoodtrauma #adoptionsupport #traumainformed
So many people judge therapeutic parents by a snippet they see of their lives - or that a child tells them! Thank you @newhappyco #therapeuticparenting #therapeuticcare #parenting #dontassume #reactiveattachmentdisorder #rad #attachmentdisorder #attachmentissues #trauma #healing #complexptsd #ptsd #developmentaltrauma #anxiety #adoption #fostercare
Take a moment to let us know about something positive, no matter how small, you have experienced lately. We could all use a reminder that life can be good, even when it is really, really hard. #RADparenting #reactiveattachmentdisorder #AdoptionSupport #silverlining
Early trauma rewires the brain. Though children with developmental trauma/reactive attachment disorder may look and act like neurotypical children depending on their environment, they are not the same. Whereas a neurotypical child has temper tantrums, a child with developmental trauma has rages. The neurotypical child's response is developmentally appropriate. A child with developmental trauma rages in response to their fear-based survival-reacting brain. The child with developmental trauma won't outgrow their behaviors, the behaviors will only grow. Get effective intervention as early as possible. @rad_advocates www.radadvocates.org #radadvocates #developmentaltrauma #RADparenting #reactiveattachmentdisorder #fostercare #adoption #stepparenting #nextofkin #grandparentsraisinggrandchildren
New blog today on something we've been going through lately: family transitions. Change can be both healing and anxiety-inducing for those who've suffered trauma. https://www.traumadramauniversity.org/post/family_transitions_after_trauma #traumahealing #reactiveattachmentdisorder #childhoodtrauma #familysupport #healingjourney #mentalhealth #traumarecovery #parentingtips #traumainformed #familytransitions #EmotionalWellness #SupportForParents #NewBeginnings
RAD parents commonly fear for the safety of their other children, and they always have a good reason from past experience to be concerned. #RADparenting #reactiveattachmentdisorder #childhoodtrauma #abusivesibling #domesticviolence
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We don't want to be "Big Brother," but many families with kids who have attachment injuries have to have security cameras inside their homes. These help the family keep an eye on kids at all times for the safety and security of everyone in the home. If you have cameras or have considered getting them, what purpose do they serve for you? #RADparenting #reactiveattachmentdisorder #destructivechild #domesticviolence #SecurityCamera
Developmental trauma is not a stage. Just as a person cannot “outgrow” autism, they cannot “outgrow” developmental trauma disorder. Reactive attachment disorder/developmental trauma disorder doesn't go away with love and time. In fact, both make matters worse without proper intervention. Don't wait to get the right help. Visit radadvocates.org and type "nurturing enemy" into the search box to learn more. #reactiveattachmentdisorder #developmentaltrauma #mentalhealthawareness #traumamama #traumapapa #adoption #fostercare #grandparentsraisinggranchildren #stepparenting
EARLY BIRD PRICING ENDS SOON! register before May 31st to save on the training fee! This course provides you with 18 hours of training! It includes hands on learning, how-to strategies, Q&A, and lots of guided practice with our therapeutic techniques. This training is designed for: -Current providers who want to increase their knowledge base and skill level -New providers who are just staring out -Teachers who have a student with RAD in their classroom -Anyone who wants to have a better understanding of Reactive Attachment Disorder, therapeutic care, and parent support. View course and registration information here: https://www.theradishranch.org/respite-provider-training/ (link in bio) #respitecare #respite #respitetraining #parenting #therapeuticparenting #therapeuticcare #therapeuticrespitecare #trainingcourse #ottawa #rad #reactiveattachmentdisorder #attachmentdisorder #ptsd #complexptsd #cptsd #developmentaltrauma #trauma #aces #earlychildhoodtrauma #adoption #fostercare #mentalhealth
When your little sister gives you a hug. 🤪 The look on Jax and Jarren’s faces in this picture cracked me up. Maria always has something nasty on her hands so they prefer for her not to touch them. She treats her big brothers like crud but she truly loves them in her own way due to her past trauma. She has taught them to have tons of patience and is good birth control. 🤪 They are still protective of her despite her abusing them every chance she gets due to her reactive attachment disorder. They call her out on it and tell her that she is gas lighting them and love bombing them. I have her IEP with her new middle school and the tour of the inpatient facility this week…keep 🙏🏻. #littlesister #bigbrother #trauma #reactiveattachmentdisorder
Part three of the many signs and symptoms of a child with Reactive Attachment Disorder. It is no wonder that kids with RAD struggle to fit in with societal norms. Can your RAD child make and keeps friends? #traumainformed #adoptionsupport #childhoodtrauma #reactiveattachmentdisorder #RADparenting
Children with developmental trauma typically behave much differently with their primary caregivers than anyone else. Their brains are wired to charm, manipulate, and triangulate as a means of control to feel safe. This makes it incredibly difficult for families to explain the reality of their child's symptoms and to get help. Find the blog post "How a Child's Non-Violent Symptoms of Developmental Trauma Disorder Can Cause Chaos in the Home Too" at radadvocates.org/news. #radadvocates #developmentaltrauma #RADparenting #reactiveattachmentdisorder #fostercare #adoption #stepparenting #nextofkin #grandparentsraisinggrandchildren
You may have noticed that quotes and stories from AAIF members always list the member as a RAD parent and EXPERT. No one knows more about parenting a child with RAD than a parent who is doing exactly that. Please listen when we speak and believe what we are saying. We know what we are talking about. #RADparenting #reactiveattachmentdisorder #adoptionsupport #traumainformed #AdoptionSupport #expertadvice
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A great reminder to notice your child's emotion and to keep your calm - don't join in their chaos! Thank you @joyfulsmolthings #reactiveattachmentdisorder #rad #attachmentissues #trauma #behaviour #control #selfcontrol #parenting #parentingtools #therapeuticparenting #ptsd #complexptsd #cptsd #healing #adoption #fostercare #safety
Non-violent symptoms of reactive attachment disorder/developmental trauma can create just as much chaos in the home as violent behaviors can. A parent who has both types of behaviors in her home attested as such in response to today's blog post. Find the blog post "How a Child's Non-Violent Symptoms of Developmental Trauma Disorder Can Cause Chaos in the Home Too" at radadvocates.org/news. #radadvocates #developmentaltrauma #RADparenting #reactiveattachmentdisorder #fostercare #adoption #stepparenting #nextofkin #grandparentsraisinggrandchildren
Last year, in honor of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we published a blog about the physical abuse many parents endure at the hands of their children who have reactive attachment disorder (RAD), a developmental trauma disorder (DTD). A mother responded, “Would you consider writing a blog on other forms of abuse? We feel even more isolated as parents (of a child with developmental trauma disorder) because we feel like the other forms of abuse — emotional, verbal, stalking, gaslighting, damaging personal property, weaponization, false allegations, etc. — are not talked about at all or recognized as abuse.” Our author for today's post knew exactly what she was talking about because that was much more in line with her experience. To continue reading "Empathy, Please. Those of Us on the Other End of Developmental Trauma Parenting Need It Too," tap the blog post link in our bio @rad_advocates or go to radadvocates.org/news. #developmentaltrauma #complextrauma #kidsfromhardplaces #reactiveattachmentdisorder #fostercare #nextofkin #stepparents #adoption #grandparentsraisinggrandchildren #stepmom #stepdad
Attachment injuries, such as Reactive Attachment Disorder, have several possible causes. These problems can begin in utero before a baby is even born. A child experiencing one or more of these things in the first three years of their life are much more likely to have an attachment injury. #traumainformed #adoptionsupport #childhoodtrauma #reactiveattachmentdisorder #RADparenting
Time to chat trauma papa to trauma papa (with RAD Advocates along to give info. just for you). It's almost time for our special Father's Day member meeting! If you're already a member, check your inbox for the registration email in June. Not a member yet but want to take part? There's still time to sign up and take part in our June 10 meeting! Visit radadvocates.org/join for more information. RAD Advocates members get MONTHLY live meetings to chat and learn from the RAD Advocates and other members. Connect with people who truly understand, take a break, and learn ways to navigate parenting a child with RAD. #reactiveattachmentdisorder #developmentaltrauma #RADAdvocates #parenting #trauma #kidsfromhardplaces #kidsfromhardplaces #adoption #nextofkin #fostercare #grandparentsraisinggrandchildren #traumapapa
Repost from @rad_advocates • Although kids with developmental trauma may look and act like neurotypical kids (around non-primary caregivers), their brains look very different. The brain is rewired in survival and fear from early trauma. This doesn't go away with love and time. In fact, both make matters worse without proper intervention. DON'T wait for love and time to make things better. Use the valuable gift of time to do everything you can now. Visit radadvocates.org and type "nurturing enemy" into the search box to learn more. #reactiveattachmentdisorder #developmentaltrauma #mentalhealthawareness #traumamama #traumapapa #adoption #fostercare #grandparentsraisinggranchildren #stepparenting
Parent shaming and Pathological Demand Avoidance: How can we bring the logic of causality to support ourselves and our PDA children and teens? 👆💕 If you are new to this page or PDA in general, drop a “Clarity” in the comments below 👇 and we will send you a link to our free Masterclass 🥳. Xo, Casey #rads #disorganizedattachment #attachmentparenting #avoidantattachment #reactiveattachmentdisorder #pathologicaldemandavoidance #pda #sensoryprocessingdisorder #adhdkids #adhdkid #neurodiversity #parenting #parentingtips #traumainformedparenting #autismawareness #autismacceptance #oppositionaldefiantdisorder
Kids with RAD are deeply hurt and broken. They don't just need a village to raise them, they need an entire city of support. #traumainformed #adoptionsupport #childhoodtrauma #reactiveattachmentdisorder #RADparenting
Although kids with developmental trauma may look and act like neurotypical kids (around non-primary caregivers), their brains look very different. The brain is rewired in survival and fear from early trauma. This doesn't go away with love and time. In fact, both make matters worse without proper intervention. DON'T wait for love and time to make things better. Use the valuable gift of time to do everything you can now. Visit radadvocates.org and type "nurturing enemy" into the search box to learn more. #reactiveattachmentdisorder #developmentaltrauma #mentalhealthawareness #traumamama #traumapapa #adoption #fostercare #grandparentsraisinggranchildren #stepparenting
According to psychiatrist and trauma specialist Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, childhood trauma "is probably the single most important public health challenge in the United States, a challenge that has the potential to be largely resolved by appropriate prevention and intervention.” One way to help combat the effects of developmental trauma on our society is to support the healthy families who raise children with the disorder. From adoptive families to stepparents, many adults step in as healthy parents. Unfortunately, too many others step out. These families need our support, not our blame and shame. The best way to support kids is to support their families. It just makes sense. Visit radadvocates.org and search "stranger" to find the blog post and learn more. #reactiveattachmentdisorder #developmentaltrauma #PTSD #traumamama #traumapapa #grandparentsraisinggrandchildren #mentalhealthawarenessmonth #mentalhealthawareness #adoption #fostercare #stepparenting
Once again, their RAD child is yelling. The parents instruct him to do his schoolwork, but he adamantly claims it's already completed. Then, they receive an email from his teacher contradicting his statement. He vehemently disputes, insisting the teacher is mistaken. They request to see his work, only to be told he finished it at school. This scenario is typical of raising a child with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). They engage in arguments, lie to your face, and attempt to discredit parents even when presented with evidence, including video proof. This cycle repeats relentlessly until they leave home, and it occurs daily. Once they finally leave home, many never return because they were not able to bond. A RAD child may consistently deceive, gaslight and manipulate in nearly every conversation, regardless of the topic. For instance, they could have pledged to handle the garbage duty but later reneged on the commitment when the moment arrived by gaslighting. They'll even contradict obvious facts, like insisting the sky is green when it's blue. It becomes exhausting, leaving you feeling as though you're living with a narcissist due to the shared, similar traits: Most RAD children exhibit traits of narcissism, including self-centeredness, manipulation, lack of accountability, difficulty forming genuine connections, and superficial charm. They prioritize their own needs, resort to lying and gaslighting, avoid taking responsibility, struggle to form emotional bonds, and employ charm to manipulate, much like narcissists. While not all RAD children display all narcissistic traits, the similarities in behavior patterns can pose challenges for family members living with them. While not all RAD children exhibit all narcissistic traits, the parallels in behavior patterns can make living with them difficult for family members. #RADchild #ReactiveAttachmentDisorder #parentingchallenges #RADawareness #familystruggles #emotionalmanipulation #narcissismtraits #caregiverstress
Ask any parent of a child with an attachment injury about destructive behavior, and they will tell story after story after story about all the broken things in their house. Doors, windows, furniture, walls, clothes, appliances, and so much more. Here is just one of those stories. #RADparenting #reactiveattachmentdisorder #destructivechild #destructivechildren
Can someone be demand-avoidant AND a perfectionist? Yes! → Your child might crumple up 20 pieces of paper while attempting a single drawing. → They might claim they already know how to do something when prompted (like reading aloud) to avoid the possibility of messing up in front of another person. → As an adult they might take an extended amount of time to finish a task, because not completing it to the level of their own expectations is too dysregulating. None of this means that a person is lazy, unmotivated, or unwilling to try. Can't, not won't. Right? #pathologicaldemandavoidance #autism #autismacceptance #autismfamily #autismawareness #spd #sensoryprocessingdisorder #autismsupport #neurodiversity #anxiety #adhdkid #selfregulation #highlysensitivechild #oppositionaldefiantdisorder #disruptivemooddysregulationdisorder #intermittentexplosivedisorder #reactiveattachmentdisorder #pervasivedriveforautonomy #spiritedchild #traumainformedparenting
We will be discussing Attachment Disorder: Reactive Attachment Disorder EQ Show. Live on @ciiradioonline with @safeerakaka Monday Mornings at 10:30am #attachmentdisorder #rad #reactiveattachmentdisorder #drzahidakhotu #safeerakakaonair #ciiradio
Mother's Day can stir up a mix of emotions for both moms and their children, particularly when attachment issues are involved. Moms often experience feelings of sadness, disappointment, and longing for validation from the child they've dedicated their lives to raising. Meanwhile, children with attachment issues may find it difficult to grasp the significance of Mother's Day, leading to a sense of disconnection and making it challenging to express love. They could fake it and pretend to make the mother happy but often, they just don't care due to trouble bonding and showing love. #MothersDayEmotions #AttachmentStruggles #ParentChildConnection #ValidationLonging #ChallengingLoveExpression #EmotionalDisconnection #reactiveattachmentdisorder #validationfromchild #radawarenss #dissappointingholidayswithRAD
It's Mother's Day, and if you are the mother of one or more kids with an attachment injury, you will likely suffer today just like every other day. Mother's Day just reiterates to us that our parenting experience is NOTHING like a "normal" experience. AAIF hopes you survive the day and can perhaps find a brief moment of calm to appreciate. You are not alone. #RADparenting #reactiveattachmentdisorder #adoptionsupport
We honor all of the courageous, determined, exhausted, beautiful, misunderstood, and dismissed trauma mamas today and every day. Even when no one else understands what you're going through, we do. Know that there are thousands of mamas just like you out there. You are not alone. @rad_advocates #developmentaltrauma #reactiveattachmentdisorder #adoption #grandmothersraisinggrandchildren #fostermom #stepmom #auntsraisingniecesandnephews
Happy Mother's Day to all of the Moms working on HOPEand HEALING with their families. The RADish Ranch has coaching and respite care options available to all families parenting children with RAD to help boost your parenting journey and get a break for some rest and self-care! Check out options at https://www.theradishranch.org/ (link in bio) #parenting #therapeuticparenting #selfcare #rest #rad #reactiveattachmentdisorder #attachmentdisorder #attachment #mentalhealth #caregiverburnout #selfcare #adoption #fostercare #trauma #healing #developmentaltrauma #ptsd #cptsd #mothersday #moms
Here is part two of the list of the many signs and symptoms of a child with Reactive Attachment Disorder. Many are quite concerning and create big problems for the kid and their family. Which one do you struggle with most in your home? #traumainformed #adoptionsupport #childhoodtrauma #reactiveattachmentdisorder #RADparenting
To parent a child with developmental trauma can be traumatizing. If you recognize symptoms of PTSD in yourself, get help from a mental health clinician as soon as possible. If you need guidance from other parents who've been in your place, RAD Advocates is always here. @rad_advocates #reactiveattachmentdisorder #developmentaltrauma #traumamama #traumapapa #adoption #fostercare #grandparentsraisinggrandchildren #stepparenting
what a great list! Choose a few to try with your child today 💙 Thank you @emotionally.intelligent.parent #regulate #coregulation #calm #reactiveattachmentdisorder #rad #deepbreathing #attachmentissues #trauma #behaviour #control #selfcontrol #hugs #empathy #parenting #parentingtools #therapeuticparenting #ptsd #complexptsd #cptsd #healing #adoption #fostercare #safety
It's Q&A Thursday! For those newer to our page, you may not be familiar with RAD. Here is a basic definition. RAD definitions often will mention that it is a rare disorder. This is true when looking at the whole population of children worldwide, but RAD is incredibly common in children adopted from foster care. #traumainformed #AdoptionSupport #adoptionsupport #childhoodtrauma #reactiveattachmentdisorder #RADparenting
Early bird pricing ends at the end of May - register soon to save on training costs! This course provides you with 18 hours of training! It includes hands on learning, how-to strategies, Q&A, and lots of guided practice with our therapeutic techniques. This training is designed for: -Current providers who want to increase their knowledge base and skill level -New providers who are just staring out -Teachers who have a student with RAD in their classroom -Anyone who wants to have a better understanding of Reactive Attachment Disorder, therapeutic care, and parent support. View course and registration information here: https://www.theradishranch.org/respite-provider-training/ (link in bio) #respitecare #respite #respitetraining #parenting #therapeuticparenting #therapeuticcare #therapeuticrespitecare #trainingcourse #ottawa #rad #reactiveattachmentdisorder #attachmentdisorder #ptsd #complexptsd #cptsd #developmentaltrauma #trauma #aces #earlychildhoodtrauma #adoption #fostercare #mentalhealth
RAD families need help! If you know the parents of a RAD child, reach out and make sure they are doing okay. #traumainformed #adoptionsupport #childhoodtrauma #reactiveattachmentdisorder #RADparenting
"As the mother and primary caregiver to my adopted child, I was his "nurturing enemy" — a term specific to those parenting children with developmental trauma (a.k.a. reactive attachment disorder)." Find the blog post "What It Feels Like to Be a Nurturing Enemy to a Child with Developmental Trauma" in the search box at radadvocates.org/news. Are you a woman struggling as the nurturing enemy? Or do you care for a woman who is? This Mother's Day, give yourself or someone you care about the gift of support. Sign up for email at radadvocates.org and watch for our trauma mama sale in your inbox tomorrow (Wednesday, May 8). @rad_advocates #radadvocates #traumamama #developmentaltraumadisorder #DTD #RAD #RADparenting #kidsfromhardplaces #reactiveattachmentdisorder #grandparentsraisinggrandchildren #nextofkin #traumamama #stepmoms #stepdads #stepparenting #adoption #NavRAD #RADAdvocates
When you are the parent of an attachment injured child, nothing in your home is safe. Every time you think you have all the dangerous items locked away; they find something new to use. #RADparenting #reactiveattachmentdisorder #childhoodtrauma #traumainformed #firesetting
Parenting a child with developmental trauma is a confusing, lonely, and heart-wrenching experience for many. They need our support, not our judgment. #developmentaltrauma #reactiveattachmentdisorder #adoption #kinship #grandparentsraisinggrandchildren #stepparenting
The Four Rs of Trauma-Informed Care is a greatframework for both professionals and parents! #reactiveattachmentdisorder #rad #attachmentissues #trauma #behaviour #control #selfcontrol #parenting #parentingtools #therapeuticparenting #ptsd #complexptsd #cptsd #healing #adoption #fostercare #safety #realize #recognize #respond #resist
What do we do when the systems that are meant to help our families are failing us so horribly? #RADparenting #reactiveattachmentdisorder #childhoodtrauma #adoptionsupport #brokensystem
This is part one of a five-part series listing the many signs and symptoms of a child with Reactive Attachment Disorder. Obviously, no child will exhibit all of these; however, most RAD kids will have quite a few over their childhood. Which ones have you seen in your RAD child? #traumainformed #adoptionsupport #childhoodtrauma #reactiveattachmentdisorder #RADparenting
When children feel safe (physically, mentally, and emotionally), they are then able to calm their anxiety. Thank you @drjenwolkin #reactiveattachmentdisorder #rad #attachmentissues #trauma #behaviour #control #selfcontrol #parenting #parentingtools #therapeuticparenting #ptsd #complexptsd #cptsd #healing #adoption #fostercare #safety #calm
Most parents of RAD children did not know how impossibly difficult things were going to get for them; then most suffer in silence because they think they must be the only ones struggling. You are not alone! #RADparenting #reactiveattachmentdisorder #adoptionsupport
To parent a child with developmental trauma/reactive attachment disorder is a hard road. It's especially complex when you're mourning the loss of a child who is no longer in your life but remains in your heart. To continue reading "Empathy, Please. Those of Us on the Other End of Developmental Trauma Parenting Need It Too," tap the link in our bio @rad_advocates or go to radadvocates.org/news. #developmentaltrauma #complextrauma #kidsfromhardplaces #reactiveattachmentdisorder #fostercare #nextofkin #stepparents #grandparentsraisinggrandchildren #stepmom #stepdad
RAD Advocates members get MONTHLY live meetings to chat and learn from RAD Advocates and fellow members. It's a time to connect with people who truly understand, take a break, and learn ways to navigate parenting a child with RAD. If you're already a member, check your inbox soon for the registration email. Not a member yet but want to take part? There's still time to sign up and take part in our May 13 meeting! Visit radadvocates.org/join for more information. @rad_advocates #developmentaltrauma #reactiveattachmentdisorder #PTSD #traumamama #adoption #fostercare #kinship #stepmoms #grandmasraisinggrandkids
Today is going to be the start of a new series of posts called "Q&A Thursday." Each week we will answer a question you might have about our organization, attachment disorders, and more. Thanks to the wonderful people of Casper supporting us at Thankful Thursday last week, we have increased our funds by a factor of ten! So for our first Q&A, we answer the question "What do you do with the money you raise?" As a group, we are beyond thrilled, and a little overwhelmed at the opportunity this money presents to us. The answer here certainly doesn't cover all of the possibilities, but it does address a couple of ways we want to further our mission by educating anyone who works with our children. #adoptionsupport #childhoodtrauma #reactiveattachmentdisorder #RADparenting #traumainformed
Mr. Rogers always knew what was up. #pathologicaldemandavoidance #autism #autismacceptance #autismfamily #autismawareness #spd #sensoryprocessingdisorder #autismsupport #neurodiversity #anxiety #adhdkid #selfregulation #highlysensitivechild #oppositionaldefiantdisorder #disruptivemooddysregulationdisorder #intermittentexplosivedisorder #reactiveattachmentdisorder #pervasivedriveforautonomy #spiritedchild #traumainformedparenting
Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is caused from early trauma or neglect. It can also occur when children experience separation from their caregiver due to reasons such as hospital stays or circumstances beyond the caregiver's control, like military service resulting in multiple caregivers. Additionally, some children may have a genetic predisposition to RAD. It's crucial for professionals and society to educate themselves about RAD. Caregivers should not be blamed or scapegoated every time a child with trauma causes household chaos for their family. Instead, it's time to step up! Please refrain from contacting CPS if you haven't experienced raising a child with trauma or talked to the caregiver, stop blaming, and start helping! How? Provide caregivers with support, assistance and advocate for better services for our children and families in need from the state. #ReactiveAttachmentDisorder #RADAwareness #ChildhoodTrauma #CaregiverSupport #EducationIsKey #EndBlameGame #SupportNotBlame #StopStigma #RADAdvocacy #BreakTheCycle
DISCOVER YOUR CIRCLE You’re 100% certain that God called you to adoption and motherhood. You’ve committed to being the best mom possible and to love each of your children deeply. But you never expected it all to backfire on you the way it has. 🌸 You never expected the rejection and crazy-making behaviors. 🌸 You never expected your entire family and world to be turned upside down. 🌸 You never expected your circle of support to dry up like it has. 🌸 You’re NOT alone (though you may feel more isolated and alone than ever before). 🌸 Discover the Circle of Second Moms – a free Facebook group for Christian women in non-traditional mom roles with specially selected topics to help you keep learning, keep growing & keep loving. 🌸 I’m Dawn Baggett, post-adoption coach for Christian women. Message me the word “GROUP” for the join link. And discover your new Circle. 🌸💗🌸 . #postadoptioncoach #postadoptionsupport #adoptivemom #secondmom #reactiveattachmentdisorder #attachmenttrauma #christianmom #circleofsecondmoms #secondmomscircle
Treats are the best!!! #hearthorse #learningchallenges #downsyndrome #eaat #ohiotherapeutic #differentnotless #diversity #autism #depressionhelp #bipolardisorder #recovery #spasticcerebralpalsy #preemiestrong #kindness #autismacceptance #wonderfulworld #epilepsyawareness #reactiveattachmentdisorder #chronicillness #tbi #stroke #therapeutichorsebackriding #traumaticbraininjury
Part of our mission is to educate the community on how best to handle a child with Reactive Attachment Disorder. This AAIF member explains well the reason our organization works so hard to teach other about RAD. #traumainformed #adoptionsupport #childhoodtrauma #reactiveattachmentdisorder #RADparenting
Therapeutic parenting is about providing safety, attachment, and tools to reach toward healing. #reactiveattachmentdisorder #rad #attachmentissues #trauma #behaviour #control #selfcontrol #parenting #parentingtools #therapeuticparenting #ptsd #complexptsd #cptsd #healing #adoption #fostercare #safety
The challenge is undeniable. Frequently, children who have endured complex trauma may exhibit behaviors suggesting they're being mistreated by their caregivers, even when that's not the case. For caregivers caught in this scenario, it's profoundly difficult—they haven't committed any wrongdoing, yet the child's actions may imply otherwise. Moreover, bystanders and professionals often weigh in on the situation without full understanding, adding to the complexity and strain. #ComplexTrauma #CaregiverStruggle #MisunderstoodBehaviors #SupportNeeded #JudgmentFreeZone #UnderstandingNeeded #reactiveattachmentdisorder
“Understanding is key. 🗝️ Today, let’s talk about Reactive Attachment Disorder ( #RAD). It’s a complex condition that affects how we form emotional bonds. 💔 It’s not about a lack of love, but rather a result of early trauma or neglect. It can manifest in different ways, from avoiding physical touch to difficulty trusting others? It’s a reminder of the profound impact early experiences have on our emotional development. Let’s strive for empathy and understanding. #radawareness #reactiveattachmentdisorder #mentalhealthawareness #breakthestigma #mentalhealthmatters #babymodel #parenting #parentingwithintention #parentingwithrad
This is the final piece of the speech from Thankful Thursday. If you are living with a child with an attachment injury, please message us! No one should go through this alone! #ThankfulThursday #AdoptionSupport #adoptionsupport #childhoodtrauma #reactiveattachmentdisorder #RADparenting
I'm not saying there's no such thing as permissive parenting, but I think it gets thrown around a lot to describe parents who have a focus on consent and collaboration instead of compliance. Do you stop your kids from hitting each other? Well... that's a boundary. But some people will say that if you don't also send your child to their room or say they can't have dessert, you're being permissive. Maybe we could just eliminate labels altogether. Maybe we're just all doing our best with what we have inside the very nuanced dynamics of our own families. The majority of parents are more similar than they're different anyway, whether your child has a disability or not. #pathologicaldemandavoidance #autism #autismacceptance #autismfamily #autismawareness #spd #sensoryprocessingdisorder #autismsupport #neurodiversity #anxiety #adhdkid #selfregulation #highlysensitivechild #oppositionaldefiantdisorder #disruptivemooddysregulationdisorder #intermittentexplosivedisorder #reactiveattachmentdisorder #pervasivedriveforautonomy #spiritedchild #traumainformedparenting
Live, Online Respite Provider Course NEW & UPDATED COURSE! With all live sessions participants get to interact with each other, share information, and ask questions. This course has proven beneficial for many respite providers from all over North America! Next Course: April 30th – May 16th; Tuesday & Thursday evenings at 7:00PM CST Price: $170CAD/person, $270CAD/couple (includes PDF workbook and unlimited Q&A via email during and after the course) For more information and registration go to: https://www.theradishranch.org/online-respite-provider-course/ Questions? Email us at [email protected] #rad #reactiveattachmentdisorder #attachmentdisorder #attachment #mentalhealth #caregiverburnout #selfcare #adoption #fostercare #trauma #healing #developmentaltrauma #ptsd #cptsd #respitecare #respite #therapeuticrespitecare #selfcare #theraeputicparenting