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👉 The Mindmixer. Why would someone who says they love me do or say hurtful things to me? The Mindmixer will play mind games with you to such an extent that you can find it difficult to keep a grip on what is actually happening. Bit by bit, the Mindmixer will chip away at your sense of self, how you think, and how you look until you feel completely dismantled, broken and lacking the confidence to trust your own judgement. In the Escape the Trap programme and Cathy Press' new book 'When Love Bites', the Controller is explored through five characters: 👉 the Charmer, 👉 the Bully, 👉 the Mindmixer, 👉 the Taker and 👉 the Keeper, all of whom can appear in an abusive and controlling relationship. Follow the link in our bio to find out more and get your hands on the new book, When Love Bites. . . . #coercivecontrol #coerciveabuse #coercivecontrolsurvivor #coercivecontrollingbehaviour #coercivecontrolawarness #domesticabuse #domesticabuseawareness #domesticabusesurvivor #domesticabusesuppprt #domesticabuseprevention #domesticabusehelp #domesticabuseuk #domesticviolenceawareness #youngpeoplesmentalhealth #youngpeoplematter #youngpeoplementalhealth #youngpeopleprogramme #escapethetrapp #whenlovebites

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5/31/2024, 11:30:31 AM

2 weeks to go to our @tus_ire / Haven Horizons' Symposium on the Impact of Domestic Abuse & Coercive Control Training. Thursday 13/06/24 - 8:45-13:00 TUS Moylish Campus, Limerick Register on Eventbrite: bit.ly/3UuCVYH Please share with anyone who might be interested in attending #domesticabuse #coercivecontrol #endviolenceagainstwomen #stopgenderbasedabuse #EducationIsPrevention #DSGBA #stopviolenceagainstwomen #EndCoerciveControl #endgenderbasedviolence #GenderBasedViolence

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5/31/2024, 11:14:55 AM

Guilt is a weight that will crush you whether you deserve it or not." –Maureen Johnson #psychologicalmanipulation #manipulation #psychologicalabuse #coercivecontrol #abuse #brainwashing #spiritualabuse #coercion #highcontrol #culticstudies #cult #newreligiousmovements #assistance #exitcounseling #mindcontrol #highdemandgroups # #thoughtreform #psychologicalwarfare #empower #empaths #propaganda #gaslighting #emotionalabuse #covertnarcissists # #abusiverelationships #empathnarcissistdynamic #infiltration #gaslightingisabuse

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5/31/2024, 9:45:02 AM

The Mindmixer The Escape The Trap Programme and When Love Bites both aim to educate young people and those working with them on teenage relationship abuse. To find out how our programme could help you visit the link in our bio. #EscapeTheTrap #GayTeenager #TeenageProblems #RelationshipAdvice #RelationshipProblems #RelationshipHelp #RelationshipCounselling #RelationshipStruggles #RelationshipTherapy #RelationshipFacts #RelationshipAbuse #TeenageRelationship #TeenageLove #CoerciveControl #AbuseIsNotLove #AbuseAwareness #AbuseRecovery #EmotionalAbuse #EmotionalAbuseIsStillAbuse #MentalAbuse #PsychologicalAbuse #DomesticAbuse #DomesticAbuseAwareness #LoveDoesntHurt #ToxicRelationship #CoDependency

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5/31/2024, 9:41:39 AM

Isolation is a common method of abuse and coercive control, with the intention of preventing you from engaging with the external world and recognising issues within the relationship. It serves to separate you from supportive family and friends who could assist you in breaking free from or addressing the abusive situation. #jailor #isolation #coercivecontrol #domesticabuseawareness #abuseisnotlove #noexcuseforabuse

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5/31/2024, 8:49:08 AM

It’s called institutional betrayal and it has a huge impact on our mental, and possibly physical, health. Institutional betrayal is associated with increased symptoms of depression and posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD). #StalkingVictim #coercivecontrol #abusevictims #postseperationabuse #stalked #cyberstalkingawareness #workplaceharassment #stalked #stalkingawareness #onlineabuse #cyberstalking #cyberstalkingawareness #policeaccountability #PoliceAccountability #institutionalbetrayal #institutionalbetrayaltrauma

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5/31/2024, 8:30:05 AM

After I left, I would still find myself wanting to make him comfortable. But I had to keep reminding myself that I had to hold him accountable. No one else in his life wanted to, or could hold him accountable, and it made him worse. I had the opportunity to do it and I also needed to protect my children. Some people looked at me like I was a monster, coming for this poor man. I just had to keep doing what was right. Those people that judged me for holding a sociopath accountable, are not my people. I have my people. It’s actually quite a lot of people. So I really needed to shake the flying monkeys and the feeling that I was being “mean,” when in reality I was doing the thing he needed most. A good hard look in the mirror and some boundaries. #narcassiticabusesurvivor #narcassiticpersonalitydisorder #coercivecontrol #runlikehell #beabuffalo #flyingmonkeys #accountability

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5/31/2024, 6:45:34 AM

Learning the signs of narcissists and coercive controllers may help you navigate escaping the abusive relationship. If you need more assistance: Use link in bio to: -schedule one on one sessions with a certified consultant -join free support group via discord -locate digital courses #familycourtstrategy #escapinganarcissist #narc #abuse #abusiverelationship #coercivecontrol #escapingabuse #coparentingwithanarcissist

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5/31/2024, 5:26:03 AM

Empowerment begins with the understanding that you deserve a life free from abuse. #coercivecontrol #abusiverelationship #emotionalabuse

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5/31/2024, 4:00:34 AM

@lisalu_girlpower #thenarcissisteffect #narcissism #narcissist #npd #coercivecontrol #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery #loveyourselfmore

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5/31/2024, 2:33:14 AM

The draft Bill incorporates a 12-month commencement window to facilitate education prior to enforcement. A similar approach was used in the NSW reform. There is no reason why a legislative process & an education campaign cannot coincide. #coercivecontrol #domesticviolence #believesurvivors #supportsurvivors

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5/31/2024, 1:49:04 AM

Reactive abuse is the result of manipulative tactics used by an abuser to evoke a reaction from their victim. It’s a combination of gaslighting and DARVO tactics where the abuse is denied, blame is reversed and the abuser will claim to be the victim, often convincing the victim that they might actually be the abuser. The psychological toll that reactive abuse can have on a victim is immense, and it can cause many people to become stuck in a cyclical, unsafe relationship with abusive individuals. Those who exhibit reactive outbursts in a dangerous relationship may form trauma bonds where they are emotionally attached to the abuser. Those who have experienced reactive abuse may also sustain large amounts of stress, anxiety, or depressive symptoms from their traumatic abuse which may lead to Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Many abusers diagnosed with NPD will often use this form of manipulation on their victims and it is extremely prevalent in legal cases of intimate partner violence where one of the parties is a narcissist. #entrapment #reactiveabuse #darvo #gaslighting #manipulativepeople #abuseofsystem #manipulativebehaviours #coercivecontrol #imbalanceofpower #abusiverelationships #abusivebehaviour #npd #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #postseparationabuse #underhandtactics #courtsanctionedabuse #triggering #traumabonds #traumacounsel #ptsd #cptsd #psychology #ipv #intimatepartnerviolence #domesticabuse #emotionalabuse #cognitivedissonance #jumpingthruhoopz #jumpingthroughhoops #settingyouuptoreact

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5/31/2024, 1:48:35 AM

Words I haven’t been able to articulate myself from @lauren.free_ #postseperationabuse #highconflictcustody #childcrisis #domesticabuse #protectiveparent #coercivecontrol

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5/31/2024, 1:24:22 AM

Narcissistic abuse is horrendous. So many situations and things can trigger emotional and mental responses. Unless you have seen or had this in your life, it is very hard to understand. Know you are loved and you are worthy by the people that show they care and love you 🙏🏻💜🥰 Narcissistic Abuse. #narcissisticrelatives #narcissists #narcissist #narcissisticparents #narcisstichusband #narcissisticwife #narcissisticboyfriend #narcissisticgirlfriend #narcissisticfriendships #narcissisticdaughter #narcissisticsiblings #narcissisticfriends #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticfather #narcissisticmother #narcissisticsister #nacissisticbrother #narcissisticson #narcissistfree #narcs #narcsareshittypeople #toxicfamily #toxicfriends #toxicrelationships #toxicpeople #shittypeople #coercivecontrol

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5/31/2024, 12:29:34 AM

This explains a lot about my life. It makes more sense to me now...I really thought there was something wrong with me and doubted myself and my recall on everything. Narcissistic abuse is horrendous. So many situations and things can trigger emotional and mental responses. Unless you have seen or had this in your life, it is very hard to understand. Know you are loved and you are worthy by the people that show they care and love you 🙏🏻💜🥰 Narcissistic Abuse. #narcissisticrelatives #narcissists #narcissist #narcissisticparents #narcisstichusband #narcissisticwife #narcissisticboyfriend #narcissisticgirlfriend #narcissisticfriendships #narcissisticdaughter #narcissisticsiblings #narcissisticfriends #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticfather #narcissisticmother #narcissisticsister #nacissisticbrother #narcissisticson #narcissistfree #narcs #narcsareshittypeople #toxicfamily #toxicfriends #toxicrelationships #toxicpeople #shittypeople #coercivecontrol

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5/31/2024, 12:26:29 AM

We learned a LOT from our first episode with Dr. Karen Williams. It was a big conversation with some hard truths, but speaks to the ongoing impact that victims of abuse can suffer. It’s so important to not only be aware of these tactics, but also understand how to support those that may be dealing with trauma. The most important thing I learned I saved for the last slide 💜 Dr Karen has offered to come back for another round to answer some questions as we’ve had a few DMs - what do you think? Should we do an anonymous Q&A next month? 💜 . . . #enddomesticviolence #dvprevention #dvawareness #sydney #australia #podcast #coercivecontrol #enoughisenough #dvawarenessmonth #podcast #strengthinnumbers #genderequality #supportservices #dvsupport #recovery #therapy #trauma

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5/31/2024, 12:16:24 AM

Neglect and making people feel unworthy is so damaging. It makes people feel worthless and unimportant. People don’t realize how detrimental neglect can be. It is a severe form of abuse. ••••• #neglect #emotionalneglect #unworthy #falsenarrative #narcissisticwoman #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticabuse #emotionalabuse #mentalabuse #mentalabuseawareness #manipulator #falselyaccused #sheabusedhim #heisasurvivor #mentellyourstory #abusedmen #sheplaysvictimwell #menshareyourstory #covertabuse #covertnarcissism #covertnarcissism #reactiveabuse #hiddenabuse #gaslighting #gaslightingisabuse #narcissisticabuse #coercivecontrol #coercionisnotconsent #falseallegationsruinslives #deflection • • • • #Repost @understandingthenarc with @use.repost ・・・

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5/31/2024, 12:07:21 AM

Abusers often take steps to monitor and control all forms of their partner’s communication - including email, social media, phone calls, and social activities. #coercivecontrol #psychologicalabuse

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5/31/2024, 12:00:31 AM

"It always seems impossible until it is DONE" - Nelson Mandela. Such powerful words! Nothing is IMPOSSIBLE! The word itself says, "I'm possible"! Whatever evil you are fighting against, don't EVER give up!!!! Keep fighting until you get your result!!!! With Love and Light, Nataliya Sunshine:)

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5/30/2024, 11:21:34 PM

Moms aren’t winning in family court. They’re being slaughtered. Silence is death. This society hates moms & is silencing them to death. There is a war at home. If only someone knew? ❤️🤍💙 🤫❤️‍🩹💔 Post separation abuse is a dangerous place. Some of us do not make it out alive. A divorce is only the beginning. After you leave the abuser comes for your children. Family court tortures you & throws you & your children into an invisible cage. 💜💔🇺🇸❤️🤍💙 #warathome #believesurvivors #familycourtawarenessmonth #metoofamilycourt #america #childabuse #domesticviolence #childabuseawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #justiceforlaurelandnova #momlife #postseperationabuse #coercivecontrol #divorce #ptsd #humanrights #childrenarenotforsale #familycourt #bigfoot #narcwise #familycourtreform #familycourtcrisis #parentalalienation #narcissisticabuse #childcustody #divorcinganarcissist #silence #America #mom #death

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5/30/2024, 11:17:10 PM

I promise you I will never stop fighting with his corrupt system. There is a war at home. If only someone knew? ❤️🤍💙 🤫❤️‍🩹💔 Post separation abuse is a dangerous place. Some of us do not make it out alive. A divorce is only the beginning. After you leave the abuser comes for your children. Family court tortures you & throws you & your children into an invisible cage. 💜💔🇺🇸❤️🤍💙 #warathome #believesurvivors #familycourtawarenessmonth #metoofamilycourt #america #childabuse #domesticviolence #childabuseawareness #domesticviolencesurvivor #justiceforlaurelandnova #momlife #postseperationabuse #coercivecontrol #divorce #ptsd #humanrights #childrenarenotforsale #familycourt #bigfoot #narcwise #familycourtreform #familycourtcrisis #parentalalienation #narcissisticabuse #childcustody #divorcinganarcissist #mom #momlife #warrior #fight

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5/30/2024, 11:04:10 PM

How much sh💩t did you sweep under the rug before you finally realized it just needs to be tossed out? With narcissists you can spend you entire life cleaning up their messes. They only get filthier! Read/Listen to my book or audiobook: ESCAPING INSANITY on #amazon #linkinbio #covertnarc #psychopath #covertnarcissist #covertnarcissism #covertnarcissists #hiddenabuse #financialabuse #domesticviolence #fraud #toxictraits #nocontact #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #npd #coercivecontrol #covert #pathologicalliars #manipulators #abuseawareness #nocontactrule #mood #toxic #toxicrelationships #narcissist #narcopath #survivor #covertabuse

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5/30/2024, 10:59:54 PM

Your emotionally abusive partner will brainwash you into thinking the WILDEST things like…. “My needs don’t matter” “I’m worthless” “I’m bad” “I don’t deserve good things” “I’m powerless” But NONE of these things are true 😏 So here are 5 daily affirmations that will help you heal and deprogram yourself ✨ “My needs are important” ✨ “My worth is inherent and I don’t have to prove my worth to anyone including my partner” ✨”I am enough exactly as I am” ✨ “I deserve to feel safe, secure and loved” ✨ “I deserve healthy love” Save this post for later or share it with someone who might need it or benefit ❤️ For more on healing and breaking free from emotionally abusive relationships follow me @leahaguirrelcsw and stay tuned for my book, Is This Really Love ? ❤️ 📖 #emotionalabuse #emotionalabusesurvivor #emotionalabuseisstillabuse #emotionalabuseawareness #emotionalabuserecovery #emotionalabuseisabuse #emotionalabuseisreal #emotionalabusehealing #emotionalabuseisnotlove #emotionalabusetrauma #emotionalabuserecoverytips #emotionalmanipulation #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness #gaslightingisabuse #gaslightingsurvivor #gaslightingisreal #gaslightingrecovery #gaslighting101 #gaslightingeffect #narcissisticandemotionalabuse #coercivecontrol #coercivecontrolsurvivor #coercivecontrolisabuse #coercivecontrolbehaviour #coercivecontrolawareness #subtleabuse #psychologicalabuse #psychologicalabuseawareness #psychologicalabusesurvivor

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5/30/2024, 8:58:26 PM

Signs of Coercive Control: The Charmer They tell you everything you want to hear. No-one is perfect. While you don’t want to dislike everything that comes out of a date’s mouth, if absolutely everything is what you dream of hearing, that’s not as good as it may seem. Spinning you a tale of perfection is a classic tactic of the Charmer. As part of their charm offensive they may say that you are just what they are looking for, that you are special, that they’ve never met anyone like you before, that they feel lucky to have met you. But they don’t mean it. The Charmer will also re-emerge at the times when you question the way they behave and/or when you want to end your relationship with them. Find out more in When Love Bites - follow the link in our bio to order a copy. . . . #coercivecontrol #coerciveabuse #coercivecontrolsurvivor #coercivecontrollingbehaviour #coercivecontrolawarness #domesticabuse #domesticabuseawareness #domesticabusesurvivor #domesticabusesuppprt #domesticabuseprevention #domesticabusehelp #domesticabuseuk #domesticviolenceawareness #youngpeoplesmentalhealth #youngpeoplematter #youngpeoplementalhealth #youngpeopleprogramme #escapethetrapp #whenlovebites

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5/30/2024, 8:43:23 PM

Tu as déjà entendu cette phrase ? #phrase #manipulation #violencespsychologiques #rejet #remplacement #blessuresemotionnelles #insécurité #intimidation #dependanceaffective #coercivecontrol #consentementforce #abus #subtil

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5/30/2024, 8:16:22 PM

Bill C-332, an Act to Amend the Criminal Code (Coercive and Controlling Conduct), will have its third reading in the House of Commons on Tuesday, June 4. Coercive control, a serious issue in many abusive relationships, can often lead to domestic homicide but remains legally permissible in many cases. Contact your local MP to express your support and share this post to raise awareness! Learn more here by following the link in our bio #alberta #bc #saskatchewan #manitoba #yukon #nunavut #nwt #ontario #quebec #halifax #pei #novascotia #maritimes #coercivecontrol #legislation #civil #advocacy #vote #politics #safe #criminalize #survivors #safety #help #support #domesticviolence #domesticabuse #canada #FEWO #CanPoli

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5/30/2024, 7:58:54 PM

What do you see ? The floor or the ant ? If you are like 99.99999% of people ( my own assumption 😂😂) you will see the ant before the floor even registers to you. If you are a narcissist you have been working so hard to provide for the family you didn’t notice the ant . In fact you are working so hard you don’t notice the hundreds ( probably thousands) of ants and ant carcasses all over your house . Every room . Every floor . Starting when my children were first born I would take the three of them away for the summer to our summer home - so that the narc/ father could have all of the important meetings and dinners that he couldn’t do while we ( his family ) were home . He would focus on work for the summer without the weight of his family having him feeling compelled be home for dinner each night . When I came home the summer of 2005, after a seven hour drive , 2 year old twins , nine months pregnant and a car packed with all of the summer’s grime and laundry …. I walked into a house that I couldn’t put my children down in . It was disgusting. I couldn’t believe the infestation. When I asked the narc …. “I worked late every night … walked in the door and went straight to bed . I got up the next morning and went straight to work” So I cleaned up the thousands of dead ants ( luckily I had help ) and accepted this reason. #gaslightingawareness #gaslightingisabuse #domesticviolenceawareness #coercivecontrol #coercivecontrolisabuse #hedgefundmanager #movementofmothers #bloomberg

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5/30/2024, 7:51:26 PM

Alienating behaviours starkly contrast with those of a mentally healthy parent. Rooted in ego wounds, narcissism, and selfishness, these behaviours often manifest in people with Cluster B personality disorders—a group marked by an inflated sense of self-worth and a callous disregard for others' rights and well-being. In the context of family dynamics, particularly during high-conflict separations or divorces, these people thrive on dominating and sabotaging, showing little remorse for the havoc they wreak.⁠ ⁠ Attempting to reason with an alienating parent is often futile. Their entrenched Cluster B traits—be they narcissistic, histrionic, or borderline—fuel their resistance to reconciliation efforts. Instead, they revel in conflict, finding validation in perpetuating discord. Unfortunately, the adversarial nature of family court proceedings often amplifies this dynamic, unwittingly bolstering the alienator's influence as the child's voice echoes their indoctrination.⁠ ⁠ Statistics paint a sobering picture, revealing that approximately 10% of divorces descend into nightmarish, high-conflict scenarios, often involving an alienating parent. While legal professionals acknowledge the prevalence of alienation, the lack of diagnostic criteria and official treatment programs leaves countless parents worldwide stranded and suffering.⁠ ⁠ In the face of such pathogenic parenting and systematic dysfunction, the path to healing lies not in changing the alienator but in reclaiming our own peace of mind. Yet, undoubtedly, the trauma of alienation cuts deep, leaving us struggling with feelings of injustice and isolation. It's crucial for ‘parental alienation’ to be recognised and understood. It isn’t just detrimental to the 'target' parent and all this side of the family—it inflicts harm on the child. Being coerced into aligning with one parent and rejecting and becoming alienated from the other, with no justification, is not in the child's best interest. It's a form of emotional abuse. It’s a pandemic of suffering. There is an urgent need for public services to offer more support.⁠ ⁠ ⁠

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5/30/2024, 7:20:16 PM

⚠️ Reader discretion is advised ⚠️ Court document retrieved from: www.courthousenews.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/11/diddy-cassie.pdf #coercivecontrol #domesticviolence #domesticviolenceawareness #coercivecontrollingbehaviour

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5/30/2024, 7:13:18 PM

In the tumultuous arena of family court, where every move can tip the scales of justice, aligning your strategy with the judge’s mindset and the law is paramount. It’s natural to want to lay bare the abuser’s actions, seeking retribution and safeguarding your child, but beware: this can backfire, casting you as a vengeful ex rather than a protective parent. The narcissist’s playbook is cunning, aiming to manipulate and control at every turn. Don’t fall into their trap. Instead, accept them for who they are and prepare to navigate their tactics with unwavering strength. Establish firm boundaries, secure court orders for structure, and keep conflict at bay, shielding your child from its harmful effects. Remember, your journey is not solitary. Lean on a support network versed in the nuances of battling narcissists in court. Their wisdom and solidarity will bolster your resolve as you fight for your child’s safety. In this high-stakes game, a few tips can make all the difference: 1️⃣Strategic Silence: Sometimes, silence speaks volumes. Instead of engaging in every provocation, choose your battles wisely. Silence can be a powerful weapon against a narcissist’s need for attention and validation. 2️⃣Emotional Detachment: While it’s natural to feel anger and frustration, strive for emotional detachment when dealing with the narcissist. Responding with calmness and clarity can disarm their attempts to provoke or manipulate. 3️⃣Speak with Precision: Avoid vague language and ambiguity. Be concise and precise in your communication, presenting facts with clarity and confidence. 4️⃣Anticipate Counterarguments: Think ahead and anticipate potential counterarguments from the opposing party. Prepare concise rebuttals supported by evidence to preemptively address any challenges to your case. Keep in mind that you are not just fighting for custody, but for the safety and happiness of your child(ren.)👩‍👧‍👦

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5/30/2024, 4:44:16 PM

It’s hard to come out of hiding in the aftermath of domestic abuse. We had to hide to survive, which is so wrong and yet so necessary. What caused you to go into hiding? The abuser constantly belittling your worth and demeaning your body until you doubt everything about who you are and what you look like. There is nothing wrong with you. There is everything wrong with the abuser. When you’re ready, come out of hiding and let the world see the beautiful you! Leaving is courageous. Leaving is hard. Living is harder. #another_one_free #abuserecovery #coercivecontrol #domesticabuse #divorceisbiblical #hopeforhealingfromdomesticabusebook

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5/30/2024, 4:00:20 PM

Stop Killing Women. We’re tired #MeTooFamilyCourt #DomesticViolence #FamilyCourt #Survivor #Help #Share #Comment #Like #SpreadAwareness #CoerciveControl #coercivecontrolistheleadingprecursortomurder #EndMaleViolence #StopKillingWomen #GenderBasedViolence #WarOnWomen #Hollywood #BreakingNews #News #AllieShehorn #makeup #makeupartist #femicide #domestichomicide #crime #homicide #Actor #NickPasqual #arrested #Repost from @people • Actor Nick Pasqual was charged with attempted murder on Wednesday, May 29, after allegedly stabbing his estranged girlfriend Allie Shehorn on May 23. Tap the link in our bio to read the full story. | 📷: Wireimage; GoFundMe

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5/30/2024, 3:22:51 PM

Wat een waardevolle uitwisseling tijdens het congres ‘De complexiteit van #ouderverstoting’ in het prachtige Brummen! Naast inspirerende sprekers als Iris van @villa_pinedo, advocaat Jolande ter Avest en Petra Ackermans van Stichting Parentshouse Zutphen, mocht ik wat vertellen over hoe je de ‘taal’ van ouderverstoting kunt herkennen. Dank voor de uitnodiging en de geweldige organisatie door Stichting Parentshouse Zutphen. Genoten van een mooie dag op kasteel Engelenburg, de betrokken deelnemers en interessante discussies. Zo leuk om een aantal bekenden nu ook live te ontmoeten! 📌 Wil jij meer leren over ouderverstoting? Ben jij professional en wil je meer inzicht in wat ouderverstoting is, welke onderliggende dynamieken kunnen spelen, de kenmerkende signalen en patronen en hoe je die kunt herkennen? 👉 Schrijf je dan in voor de 2-daagse TRAINING ‘(Her)ken de taal van ouderverstoting’ die start op 2 oktober of op 6 november. Kijk hier voor meer informatie en inschrijven op mijn website www.moniquemeulemans.nl of via de link in bio. In-company training kan ook! Neem dan contact met me op via: [email protected] #conflictscheiding #scheiding #complexescheiding #contactverlies #kindermishandeling #partnergeweld #intiemeterreur #dwingendecontrole #coercivecontrol #ouderverstoting #oudervervreemding #jeugdzorg #jeugdbescherming #veiligthuis #kindercoach #advocaat #mediator #gezinsvoogd #workshop #training #professional

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5/30/2024, 3:08:04 PM

If your child begins to call you by your furst name rather than “mom” or “dad”, there may be more to the story. Coercive coparents thrive on trying to diminish the importance of the other parent because it feeds their emotional immaturity and insecurities. They are simply in competition with you.

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5/30/2024, 2:16:24 PM

Not only do family court professionals make decisions that ignore a history of abuse thereby further harming children and their protective parents… They also EMBOLDEN coercive controllers - NARCISSISTIC ABUSERS. The Coercive Controller learns that the court is set up to support their cause - REVENGE at all costs. IT’S LIKE A PLAYGROUND FOR AN ABUSER #courtbias #childcustody #injustice #systemicabuse #coercivecontrol

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5/30/2024, 2:00:10 PM

There are many variables that I see that lead to the worst outcomes: 1. You are raised with a heavy religious background whereby you are groomed to be a servant and not question authority. 2. You have a narcissistic parent that perpetuates a narrative that you are not “seen”. 3. You find yourself in a relationship with an abusive partner down the road. This trifecta is what I think is the hardest to climb out of. If you throw in there, uneducated, it can be hardest for people to find their way out because they aren’t equipped to open their minds to the possibility of being exploited at the hands of a system that is corrupt and people that are corrupt throughout their family system and friend circle. #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #psychopath #darktriad #survivor #intimatepartnerviolence #covertpassiveaggressivenarcissism #narcissist #tellatherapist #apd #narcissism #antisocialpersonalitydisorder #sociopath #nysnarcissisticabuserun #njsnarcissisticabuserun #narcissisticabuserun #alldomesticviolenceisnarcissisticabuse p #domesticviolence #narcissisticabuse #vanessareiser #joanofnarc #cult #navigatingnarcissism #coercivecontrol #cultrecovery #traumabond #cycleofabuse #thenarcissistscult #empathynotincluded Disclaimer: My posts are a result of years of research and are not about any ☝️ person. They are based on thousands of hours with thousands of people (many of whom are clients), regarding thousands of topics from the children of narcissists, the parents of narcissists, cult abuse victims, the coworkers of narcissists, the siblings of narcissists, the friends of narcissists, & diagnosed narcissists, themselves.

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5/30/2024, 1:15:24 PM

Just because it doesn’t leave visible bruises, doesn’t mean it isn’t violent. It’s taken me a while to fully appreciate that coercive control is violent. That word has so many connotations, it’s not easy to admit you’ve been subjected to it, or are still experiencing it. The more people know and understand about coercive control, the better so spread the word, share the knowledge, empower the victims to say NO to domestic abuse 🙌 Need help? Contact #dvassist #domesticabuse #coercivecontrol #domesticviolence #education #domesticviolence #domesticviolenceawareness #evaw #EndTheCycle #domesticabuseawareness

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5/30/2024, 12:38:44 PM

Some actions that characterise a controlling partner can be seen as normal or expected in a relationship. Some could even be interpreted as a kind behaviour- it all depends on context. Would you see this behaviour as abusive or controlling? To find out how our programme could help you visit the link in our bio. #EscapeTheTrap #GayTeenager #TeenageProblems #RelationshipAdvice #RelationshipProblems #RelationshipHelp #RelationshipCounselling #RelationshipStruggles #RelationshipTherapy #RelationshipFacts #RelationshipAbuse #TeenageRelationship #TeenageLove #CoerciveControl #AbuseIsNotLove #AbuseAwareness #AbuseRecovery #EmotionalAbuse #EmotionalAbuseIsStillAbuse #MentalAbuse #PsychologicalAbuse #DomesticAbuse #DomesticAbuseAwareness #LoveDoesntHurt #ToxicRelationship #CoDependency

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5/30/2024, 11:15:00 AM

Our programme supports those working with young people to deliver the tools and knowledge they need to protect themselves against relationship abuse. Don’t just take our word for it: “I will now pay attention to a person’s actions and check it matches their words.” To find out how our programme could help you visit the link in our bio. #EscapeTheTrap #GayTeenager #TeenageProblems #RelationshipAdvice #RelationshipProblems #RelationshipHelp #RelationshipCounselling #RelationshipStruggles #RelationshipTherapy #RelationshipFacts #RelationshipAbuse #TeenageRelationship #TeenageLove #CoerciveControl #AbuseIsNotLove #AbuseAwareness #AbuseRecovery #EmotionalAbuse #EmotionalAbuseIsStillAbuse #MentalAbuse #PsychologicalAbuse #DomesticAbuse #DomesticAbuseAwareness #LoveDoesntHurt #ToxicRelationship #CoDependency

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5/30/2024, 11:14:15 AM

Disengaging word 💌 don’t feed into it! Like a gray rock 🪨 protect your peace 🫶 • • • #grayrock #stoicism #narcissisticabuse #falsenarrative #narcissisticwoman #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticabuse #emotionalabuse #mentalabuse #manipulator #falselyaccused #sheabusedhim #heisasurvivor #mentellyourstory #abusedmen #sheplaysvictimwell #menshareyourstory #covertabuse #covertnarcissism #covertnarcissism #reactiveabuse #hiddenabuse #gaslighting #gaslightingisabuse #coercivecontrol #coercionisnotconsent #falseallegationsruinslives #deflection • • • #Repost @stoicnarcthings with @use.repost_ ・・・

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5/30/2024, 10:48:38 AM

Kind 1 hat das Familiengericht überlebt. Die Nachtrennungsgewalt geht leider in Form von finanziellem Missbrauch weiter. #amtsgerichtpotsdam #agpotsdam #verfahrensbeistand #metoofamilycourt #postseparationabuse #familiengericht #financialabuse #istanbulconvention #accountability #domesticviolence #mothersontherise #abusebyproxy #bronzestar #jugendamtpotsdam #müttervorgericht #childabuse #believechildren #nachtrennungsgewalt #familiebleiben my ass #myexisanabuser #coercivecontrol #familycourtcrisis #mütterbrechenschweigen #potsdam #landbrandenburg #mikeschubert #unipotsdam #fürpotsdam

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5/30/2024, 10:28:14 AM

As Domestic Violence Awareness Month ends, GPLaw will be hosting and chairing a workshop for Sunshine Coast family lawyers on Coercive Control and Family Law Mediations. This workshop aims to equip family law practitioners with the necessary skills to identify and assess levels of harm in a failed relationship so that lawyers are better equipped to respond and advocate effectively. We are honoured to introduce our guest speaker Kathleen Hope from @sunnykidssc, who brings a wealth of knowledge and experience in the realm of domestic violence support to our workshop. #domesticviolence #domesticviolenceawareness #coercivecontrol #mediation #familylaw #GPLaw

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5/30/2024, 10:15:14 AM

If you are planning to leave a domestic violence situation, it is important to have a safety plan in place. Prepare a plan in advance, either as a mental note or in writing, even if you are unsure if you want to leave. Share this plan with children in case you need to leave on short notice. It's also a good idea to let a trusted friend, family member or neighbour know when you plan to leave so they can check up on you. Visit yourtoolkit.com/prepare/1b/ to learn more about safety plans.

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5/30/2024, 9:23:10 AM

Healing after coercive control can be particularly challenging due to various factors involved in such abusive relationships: Psychological Impact: Coercive control involves sustained manipulation, gaslighting, and emotional abuse, which can deeply affect a person's sense of self-worth, trust, and perception of reality. Recovering from these psychological wounds takes time and support. Trauma Bonds: Victims of coercive control often develop strong emotional bonds with their abusers, making it difficult to break free from the toxic relationship. These trauma bonds can create feelings of loyalty, guilt, and dependency that hinder the healing process. Isolation and Stigma: Abusers may isolate their victims from friends, family, and support networks, leaving them feeling alone and ashamed. Overcoming this isolation and reaching out for help can be a significant barrier to healing. Fear and Threats: The fear of repercussions, threats of violence, or continued manipulation by the abuser can keep survivors trapped in a cycle of abuse even after leaving the relationship. Overcoming this fear and ensuring safety is crucial for healing to begin. Cognitive Dissonance: Coercive control often involves contradictory behaviors from the abuser, leading to cognitive dissonance in the victim's mind. This confusion can make it challenging to reconcile the abuser's actions with their words, prolonging the healing process. Rebuilding Trust: After experiencing betrayal and emotional manipulation in a coercive control relationship, rebuilding trust in oneself and others can be a complex and lengthy journey. Learning to trust one's judgment and establish healthy boundaries is essential for healing. Overcoming the aftermath of coercive control requires patience, self-compassion, therapy, support from loved ones, and potentially professional interventions like life coaching or counseling. Healing is possible, but it's a gradual process that demands understanding and resilience. If you have any more questions or need further insights, feel free to ask! #Healing #CoerciveControl #EmotionalAbuse #support

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5/30/2024, 9:07:10 AM

I’ve heard it all. Slut. Crazy. Fraud. Money launderer. Scam artist. Jealous. Gold-digger. Psycho. Prostitute. Stalker. Liar. And worse. It’s all water off a ducks back because I know me. I know my values, I stick to my values, I live my life according to my values. My values keep me grounded. My values keep me sane. When the slander is being thrown your way, remember who you are. Stand tall, shoulders back, chest out, drop your jaw. You got this ❤️‍🩹 #StalkingVictim #coercivecontrol #abusevictims #postseperationabuse #stalked #onlinebullying #cyberstalking #onlineharassment #stalking #onlineabuse #rememberwhoyouare #babyreindeer #slander #libel #defamation

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5/30/2024, 8:30:43 AM

If Not Now, When? YWCA Canberra supports the criminalisation of coercive control in the ACT. Tune in. YWCA Canberra CEO Frances Crimmins speaks about the national conversation to criminalise coercive control has progressed whilst the ACT has been left behind on 2CC at 5:00PM today. MEDIA RELEASE IN OUR BIO. READ IT!

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5/30/2024, 7:15:04 AM

Predators are looking for you if you are strong, smart, kind, loving, compassionate people, especially if you also people please but … do you know how to spot THEM? PreyVsPredatorthe podcast will teach you how to identify, avoid or escape the Coercive controller #preypower

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5/27/2024, 8:51:14 PM