"Move in a love relationship,
but remember, don't be lost in it.
As there is a problem that without love it is very difficult to come to an inner synthesis,
with love there is also a problem.
You may get involved so much in it that you can be completely lost.
You can lose your moorings and your roots in it.
Then outside there will be a very green land and inside there will be a desert. You understand me?
These are the three possibilities.
The best is that inside also you have a flowering world, and outside a corresponding synchronisity with it, a deep harmony... a love world.
That's my whole effort - to bring love and meditation together to you.
The meditation will give you an inner beauty, grace, and love will help that inner beauty and grace from the outside. It will become a protection and a help.
Move into a relationship with the idea that out of love you have to attain to meditation.
And love can help tremendously if you are rightly aware. Otherwise love is very destructive. It destroys many people. It simply gives trouble, anxiety, anguish, sadness, depression, frustration.
But nothing is wrong in love. Something is wrong within, the person, in his attitude.
He couldn't use love.
You can use fire to warm your house, to heat your house.
You can also burn the house.
But nothing is wrong in fire. It can be your friend; it can be your enemy - it depends on you. So don't be lost in love.
And always remember that the inner synthesis is needed.
The outer is just a means to the inner but the inner is the goal."
~ #Osho - Book: Beloved of My Heart 💞🙏❤️🩹